The Concept of a Transitional Object – Why Adults Deserve One Too

The concept of a “transitional object” is familiar to most of us from childhood:

A blanket, a doll, or a toy that a child isn’t ready to let go of.

But the truth is – adults deserve one too.

A transitional object is not a sign of dependency, but a bridge.

It’s a steady presence during times of instability.

It’s an emotional anchor.

And it heals, even if quietly.

Simply put: a transitional object is something external that holds something internal for us.

When we’re hurting, when our bodies are tense, when our hearts are afraid – sometimes there are no words.

But there is touch.

There is material. There is something to hold onto.

And something inside us calms down.

When Is a Transitional Object Helpful?

• During times of loss, grief, or emotional crisis

• In periods of uncertainty or change

• When there is a need for emotional connection, even if no one is physically holding you

• During therapeutic or emotional processes, especially when words aren’t enough

How to Choose a Transitional Object?

It doesn’t need to be “pretty.” It doesn’t need to be “special.” It needs to be yours.

Something that speaks to you, something you feel an intuitive connection with.

An object you want to touch again and again, to place next to your pillow, to carry in your bag.

It doesn’t fix problems.

But it’s there, even when you feel broken.

Here you can find a variety of my [Dolls] that were created exactly for moments like these. They are not toys – they are emotional objects.

You can assign words to them, sew your pain into them, or simply hold them when there is no other way to release.

The [Scary Fairy Pillows] are not just for decoration – they are meant to comfort. They have an emotional role:

They are objects you can hold when it’s hard, place your tears on without hesitation, or hug when words fail.

On your bed, in your bag, or in a safe corner at home – these pillows create a soft, steady space that holds you without asking questions.

The [Skull Candle] is not just a candle.

It is a point of light in the darkness. In a personal ritual, quietly with yourself,

it helps create a moment of connection – a new beginning or an old release.

Each one has a role: to hold you, balance you, and allow space for emotions – even if they are not